Saturday, June 27, 2015

One Man, One Woman

My thoughts on the Supreme Court Ruling! 

The Supreme Courts decision does not alter or change what our Heavenly Father wants for His children.  As a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I believe that a marriage is between one man and one woman.

In 1999, President Gordon B. Hinckley told the members of the Church the following:

"We regard it as not only our right but our duty to oppose those forces which we feel undermine the moral fiber of society. Much of our effort, a very great deal of it, is in association with others whose interests are similar. We have worked with Jewish groups, Catholics, Muslims, Protestants, and those of no particular religious affiliation, in coalitions formed to advocate positions on vital moral issues. ...Latter-day Saints are working as part of a coalition to safeguard traditional marriage from forces in our society which are attempting to redefine that sacred institution. God-sanctioned marriage between a man and a woman has been the basis of civilization for thousands of years. There is no justification to redefine what marriage is. Such is not our right, and those who try will find themselves answerable to God.

Some portray legalization of so-called same-sex marriage as a civil right. This is not a matter of civil rights; it is a matter of morality. Others questions our constitutional right as a church to raise our voice on an issue that is of critical importance to the future of the family.  We believe that defending this sacred institution by working to preserve traditional marriage lies clearly within our religious and constitutional prerogatives. Indeed, we are compelled by our doctrine to speak out.

Nevertheless, and I emphasize this, I wish to say that our opposition to attempt to legalize same-sex marriage should never be interpreted as justification for hatred, intolerance, or abuse of those who profess homosexual tendencies, either individually or as a group. As I said from this pulpit one year ago, out hearts reach out to those who refer to themselves as gays and lesbians. We love and honor them as sons and daughters of God. They are welcome in the Church. It is expected, however, that they follow the same God-given rules of conduct that apply to everyone else, whether single or married.

I commend those of our membership who have voluntarily joined with other like-minded people to defend the sanctity of traditional marriage. .... You are contributing your time and talents in a cause that in some quarters may not be politically correct but which nevertheless lies at the heart of the Lord's eternal plan for His children, just as those of many other churches are doing. This is a united effort."

-President Gordon B. Hinckley
LDS General Conference, October 1999

My beliefs on marriage have not changed or wavered. However, I do believe in kindness, love and mercy for those that have different views.


I personally know people that are gay and lesbian.  Do I agree with their life style? No, I don't! They in turn may not agree with me being a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, or Mormon as many refer to us. However, I choose the path of kindness and love, not hate! I love them as friends and children of God!

I have a friend that shared this analogy with me. She said, "Eggs come in different colors. They all look different on the outside, but when you crack it open...they all look the same inside!"  We are all God's children!



Sunday, June 21, 2015

Victory or Victim?

I have come across many people throughout my life.  I've seen some that stand tall surrounding themselves with positive, good and goal oriented people.  They are genuinely happy and their lives reflect that happiness.  Life is not without it's challenges, we are not immune from adversity, illness and other life altering experiences.  Yet, they go through life with a different attitude than others.  It doesn't make those times any easier, but it's how they approach each day!


I've also seen others that constantly blame others for their difficulties in life.  Such as: how they hate their boss, get upset with a utility company when their electricity is turned off or when they get that eviction notice.  Those that surround themselves with positive minded people are successful while those that are victims will always be victims.

I came across a video, as I watched it I found it interesting.  I reflected on those associations that I have at home, work, church and friendships.  Who am I surrounding myself with?  Are they uplifting or always feeling sorry or down trodden? I'm pleased to say that I've been blessed with good people, that have been positive influences in my life.  I consider myself successful! I may not be rich with money, but I'm rich in friendships.  I know I can always call, ask or share my life goals, experiences and feelings and be truly respected.   Again, I may not be a millionaire or a billionaire, yet I feel rich in my relationships. Life is what you reflect and if it's happiness and joy then that's what others see in you.  But if you are always negative, others will not want to associate with you.  No one wants to be around a sour puss!

While going through my cancer journey, I chose to be positive and happy.  I was claiming victory over cancer.  I was not a victim!  I didn't have time for that.  I also felt it was better to have positive energy around me, I didn't have time for negativity.  I've carried that positive attitude/feeling with me ever since and it's been 9 years since my diagnosis.

I choose "Victory"!  What about you?


Monday, June 15, 2015

Pretty In Pink

Today I went to my oncologist for my annual appointment. I find it not stressful seeing him. I think it's because I know I'm cured. 

Dr Bachrach and I went through the formalities. You know, "how are you", "what have you been doing", "what's new". After the pleasantries we got down to business.

He went over my blood work. Nothing to really report. It seems the one thing that keeps popping are my liver enzymes. Well, those numbers have been elevated for over 30 years. It has been discussed that when or if those numbers change then we will address it at that time. As far as cancer is concerned, no sign of it! My CA125 is in the normal range! Can we say hallelujah! 

So, here I am today 9 years cancer free! 







Wednesday, May 27, 2015

Google Me!

This is a true story that happened a few years ago while Doug and I were on vacation. I've told this story several times and feel that it's worth sharing here on my blog.  As I write this, I am determined not to embellish or exaggerate when sharing my experience. First and foremost, I will not use the names of those involved to protect the innocent...Me!

My friend shared with me that her sister in law was a writer. She did not go into detail about what books she wrote, just that she was a writer.  I thought this was interesting.  I knew that I would be meeting this writer and was curious as to what she wrote. 

So, on a beautiful Utah summer day, Doug and I were visiting with our friends and the writer would be there as well.  It was a nice gathering of people, about 35 were there. We had a nice BBQ, tractor rides, horse riding, buzzing around on the quads, kids running around playing, along with chickens doing what chickens do.  You couldn't ask for a nicer day.  

After eating, the adults sat around in the lawn chairs relaxing and visiting.  This was my golden opportunity to open up a discussion with the writer. I said, "I understand that you are a writer." She said, "Yes". "Well", I asked, "what do you write?". Her response to this day still surprises me and to those I share this experience with, she said, "Google Me!".  I was stunned!  In my mind I was thinking, "Really? Are you kidding me? Who says that? Google Me?"

What I find more fascinating is that I did not Google her!  That comment made me so not interested in what she writes.  After all, she's not world famous! She's no Stephen King, J.K. Rowling, etc, if she was I would have recognized her name from the beginning!

The moral of this story is, when someone asks what you do...don't say "Google Me"!



Saturday, May 2, 2015

Bragging Rights!

This is the first time I've have posted more than one wedding on my blog in one post! Well, I've been frustrated lately and have been feeling a little down about my talents.  So, why not share it here!?!?

My Niece Sabrina Bissett's Wedding Day June 17, 2000

















Mary Washburn's Wedding Day May 17, 2005


  Wes and Mary Filhart




 I made a lei for Wes and a lei bracelet for Mary to keep with the Island Theme!



My Nephew Landon Magnusson's Wedding Day August 12 , 2005


Landon's Bride ~ Natalia
Bridal Bouquet is silk.

My Nephew Justin Magnusson's Wedding Day April 16, 2008



Justin and Katie Magnusson
Bridal Bouquet is fresh flowers.


Shannon Green's Wedding Day April 16, 2010


Parker and Shannon Leavitt
Shannon made her own fabric roses. They were absolutely stunning!
The bridal bouquet is "One Of A Kind"!





Lyndsee Lenkersdorfer Wedding Day May 2010


CW and Lyndsee Walker with Lyndsee's parents, Alan and Vickie Lenkersdorfer,
Jaimee Lenkersdorfer (sister) and Jeremy (brother in law) and Kaylee (sister) Baldwin


Bridal Bouquet is all fresh flowers.  
Yellow calla lilies, Orange and Hot Pink Roses!


Jaimee Lenkersdorfer's Wedding Day March 2011


Seth and Jaimee Carpenter



 Bridal Bouquet created with all silk flowers! Stunning!

My Niece Alisa Magnusson's Wedding Day March 12, 2012



Alexander and Alisa Lake


Alisa has two bouquets. The bouquets pictured above are silk.




The bridal bouquet pictured above is made of fresh flowers.

My Neice Heidi Magnusson's Wedding Day April 4, 2014


Tim and Heidi Borgardus



Heidi's Bridal Bouquet is made of silk flowers

Michele Morris' Wedding Day April 25, 2015


Sheldon and Michele Hassell





Bridal Bouquet is all fresh flowers!

Monday, April 27, 2015

Never Again!

I'm feeling a little down at this time, due to a wedding I did recently for a friend's daughter.  I don't think she was too happy with my work and decided to take her bouquet to someone else to "fix it" or someone else that "understands her vision".

My frustration is this!  When a bride shows you pictures of what she wants...let's say a bohemian look, garden look or even a Victorian/vintage look...that's what you do! BUT when you have the bride watching you make that "look", says she LOVES IT and says "make it BIGGER"!  What do you do?  MAKE IT BIGGER!  She LOVED it...and took pictures that night.

A week later it was expressed to me, by the mother of the bride, that the bouquet was TOO BIG and TOO HEAVY, so she wants it smaller and tighter.  Well, the BIGGER it is the HEAVIER it gets! Keep in mind that she wants the "garden look", not structured...she wants it to look like she picked it out the garden. When making a vintage/garden look the flowers are different lengths and NOT a round nosegay. Well, the bouquet was made with the help of the mother and sister!  Let me tell you it is NEVER good to have family involved in the workroom when doing wedding work! There are too many ideas and opinions which makes it VERY DIFFICULT on the designer. The mother then says to me that her daughter wants it tighter!  When making it tighter the flowers get lost because not all flowers are the same length due to the bride wanting the "WILD LOOK".

Needless to say, I go to the wedding reception.  I greet the bride and to my surprise the bouquet is totally different.  It is a NOSEGAY with additional flowers added to it. The brides comment to me is "my husband added the flowers for me and I LOVE IT!" I'm glad she loves it, but her husband didn't do it!  It was taken to another designer and remade because the bride changed her mind!  Lesson learned: Never do a wedding for friends when the bride, mother of the bride or any other family and/or friends of the bride are involved in the creating of the bouquet.  It makes for a disaster!

Friday, January 9, 2015

Up and Down!

Well, here is my story and I'm sticking to it!  I did begin watching what I was eating after my last post!  I lost 8 pounds!  Yay me!  But, the holidays came and the 8 pounds found me again!  So, here I am back to it again!  This is the story of my life!  Until then...Eat Healthy!


Keeper Of The Sword Fireside

Doug and I were staying with Eldon and Jan Kearl in Fish Haven, Idaho as part of our summer in Utah and Idaho. While visiting we were invi...